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Welcome To loveThinksTM
(formerly LifeChangers)

loveThinks,LLC is dedicated to building and strengthening relationships before and after marriage. The heart of a vibrant relationship is a strong bond of love. You will find that the Relationship Attachment Model (RAM) provides a picture of love and closeness. When you understand what produces the feelings of love in your relationship, and how these dynamics work together, then you can manage your relationship--healing hurts and deepening intimacy.

Published in hardback with the title, How to Avoid Marrying a Jerk.

Two programs use the RAM-- the first is the PICK a Partner Program, a.k.a. How To Avoid Falling for a Jerk(ette) which teaches a way to build a healthy relationship that keeps the head and heart working together. This program is designed to provide singles and singles-again of all ages with a plan for pacing a relationship and exploring the key areas that foreshadow what that partner will be like in marriage.

If you are a public or private school teacher, click here for SCHOOL TEACHER INFORMATION.

Check out the 2008 San Francisco Smart Marriage Keynote, Waiting to Marry (click here for pdf) presented by John Van Epp and Morgan Van Epp Cutlip. This keynote addresses the current cultural trend of delaying marriage and the inherent risks associated with three prevalent, driving beliefs that are shown to be misleading and actually unfounded in an examination of research. To watch the video of this presentation click here (must have Adobe Flash player) or click here for WindowsMedia version. 

Congratulations to Morgan Van Epp Cutlip, the lead author on the research article published in the Family Consumer Science Research Journal (FCSRJ) for  being awarded the 2008 FCSRJ Most Outstanding Article! Download and read the article in its entirety HERE. The award will be presented at the Second General Session of the AAFCS Annual Meeting in Knoxville, TN on Friday June 26, 2009. And best of all, Morgan joins loveThinks,LLC in the position of Vice President of Research and Development-WELCOME!

The Marriage LINKS Program teaches couples how to be active relationship managers and work together to keep their relationship strong and resilient. This program also uses the RAM to help couples visualize their feelings of closeness and intimacy. It provides a format for you to monthly review your relationship and make sure that you are balancing your time, communication and togetherness in mutually enjoyable ways.

Check out the Pre- and Post-Deployment versions of the LINKS program with pre or post LINKS workbooks for military couples. The video recording of the 2007 Denver Smart Marriage Conference opening keynote presentation, Lessons from the Front: Using the LINKS Program with Military Couples--can be viewed in its entirety.

QuickTime version HERE. WindowsMedia version HERE (right click on link and open in new window-this may take several minutes to download; or save target on desktop and then view after it downloads).

 

SMART MARRIAGE CONFERENCE 2009: You can download a pdf of the power point presentation of Dr. Van Epp's three workshops from the Smart Marriage Conference 2009 in Orlando: PICK (TOOB); LINKS (TOOB); and Teach Teens, Reach Parents & Change Communities (with Renee Thompson & Gregg Hunter).

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